One day I walked along the street in my home town “kampung”.  I saw many people rode their bicycle from village to city for working.   This scenery reminded me on my childhood memory when I learned how to ride a bike for the first time.

I was excited to learn for all of my friends had been able to ride a bike.  But that’s not the only feeling I had, I was also so afraid to fall.   Then, bump … I felt down from the bike … on my first attempt…. It’s really hurt; I got scratch on my knees and elbows …

But I did not want to stop trying …. Felt down several times and got scratch in several places of my body… but I really wanted to ride a bike smoothly just like other kids… Finally, I made it … it’s a victory moment … felt the wind blows easily from the bike ….

That’s pretty much similar to our life.  There’s a tough time in our career or personal life.  Life is not always as smooth as plan.   … When we fall down, it’s up to us whether we let our “self pity” feeling remain and drag us down … or we decide to move on and find a new way …

Those mixed up and down experience build our character … All is up to us!  It’s our choice.

Control your destiny or someone else will.